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We're Pregnant!

Ahhhh, secret's out! Ben and I are ready to start the biggest chapter of our lives. The newest member to our lil fam is arriving this fall. This whole experience has been huge for us and I just wanted to share a slice of what was going through my mind.
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  1. Jenn Im

    Jenn Im

    20 天 前

    Ohhh my goodness. I'm in tears reading all your comments. Thank you thank you thank you for the amount of support. 😭😭😭I was really nervous uploading this video, but I just wanted to be honest and open about it all. I hope it can help anyone who's experiencing something similar. Honestly Ben, Cheeki and I are SO excited to welcome our newest family member in September. 👶🏻

    • Scarlett Carnell

      Scarlett Carnell

      4 天 前

      You will be a brilliant mother I am not a mum myself but I know you will be a good mum x

    • cyn wu

      cyn wu

      9 天 前

      I rarely write comment in youtube but here i am saying that I’m so happy for you I’m in tears🥺 wishing all the very best for the three of you🤍

    • Narigho Balindi

      Narigho Balindi

      12 天 前

      You’ll be a great mother.

    • Flavor Maze

      Flavor Maze

      12 天 前

      Wow. Congratulation. This is amazing. God bless you and your family 😍

    • Emily


      13 天 前

      Congratulations Jenn😭😭💖

  2. Zeng Yue

    Zeng Yue

    小时 前

    You will be the best mother Jenn

  3. holisticmaya


    4 小时 前

    Oh my gosh I didn't expect to cry and me so deeply moved. Congratulations Ben and Jenn, I am so happy for you and can't wait to meet your bubba. I loved how you showed the insecurities and authenticity of how you truly lived that moment. Hugs!

  4. Элла Джусупбаева

    Элла Джусупбаева

    6 小时 前


  5. ChiwawaWidBite


    6 小时 前

    This was beautifully said. As a single mom with no support from the father when I was pregnant, this felt very relatable. So it’s nice to see honest thought from another mother.... similar feelings, similar fears... TY FOR BEING SO TRANSPARENT =) new follower and excited to see a new mom on her journey!

  6. aiya


    7 小时 前

    When she said “I peed on this stick” I started wheezing, but I’m so happy for you Jenn! You’re going to be a fantastic mother. 💖

  7. Michaela Gold

    Michaela Gold

    10 小时 前

    Yup, on the brink of sobbing. God bless your beautiful family 💖💖💖. You will be amazing parents !

  8. Jess Darnes

    Jess Darnes

    11 小时 前

    This is beautiful ☺️ when Ben said “really?” it set me off in tears! Super happy for you both. I’m due in September, too. It is a scary prospect, but it will be amazing, I’m sure. You’re going to be a wonderful Mum/Mom.

  9. heather gordon

    heather gordon

    12 小时 前

    This is the most heart-warming video I've seen. wow

  10. Felisa.k


    20 小时 前

    Ugh I’m sobbing this was so beautifully Put together ! I totally understand your reaction .. when I got pregnant I cried in the shower because I was so scared .

  11. Bridget Kei

    Bridget Kei

    22 小时 前

    I'm sobbing. Congratulations, you're going to be an incredible mother 💛

  12. Mariana Alama

    Mariana Alama

    天 前

    You guys made me cry!! CONGRATULATIONS!! I have been following you since forever, I barely think I know you, I am so happy for you, you are going to be the most loving parents, i wish you all the happiness in the world :)

  13. Ululinannguaq Olsen

    Ululinannguaq Olsen

    天 前

    Happy tears right here:') This was beautiful, thank you for sharing your emotions - big respect from here! Congratulation to both of you!!

  14. Erica Lynn

    Erica Lynn

    天 前

    He had the best reaction I cried😭😭

  15. Erica Lynn

    Erica Lynn

    天 前

    Omg I'm so excited for you guys!! I've watched your channel for years and I'm so excited for you!!💗

  16. Peony daisy

    Peony daisy

    天 前

    임젠님 한국어를 읽으실지는 모르겠지만 구독해놓고 가끔 영상보는 구독자입니다. 임신축하드려요. 그리고 저도 오늘 이 영상보고 임테기 테스트했다가 홀몸이 아니란걸 알게됬습니다. 젠 임님처럼 축하받을 환경은 아니지만, 그 사람과 같이 용기내보려구요. 행복해지고 위로가 되는 영상만들어주셔서 너무 감사해요.

  17. ImJola


    天 前

    congratulations to you both I pray God grants you strength and peace 🥰❤️so happy for you

  18. Shimray Shimreichon

    Shimray Shimreichon

    天 前

    Thank you for sharing your personal space! May you, Ben and the lil one be blessed beyond measures 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  19. Khulan L

    Khulan L

    天 前

    Congratulations Jenn❤️

  20. alyssa quintero

    alyssa quintero

    天 前

    I’m due in 5 weeks and lemme just say, you made me bawl my eyes out watching this 😂😅 CONGRATULATIONS and it’s totally okay to feel this shock at first.

  21. Amanda's life [Ordinary Diary]

    Amanda's life [Ordinary Diary]

    天 前

    I am Korean who lives in Canada and a mom of 2 beautiful boys. I found your channel a couple years ago but hadn't subscribed yet despite your amazing contents coz I thought our lives are too different. But here we are now, a very reason to subscribe your channel finally! I know you r scared and you should be! But being a mom is the most single beautiful/challenging thing that happened in my life. You'll see! You r strong!!

  22. Maria Corrales

    Maria Corrales

    天 前

    This is so beautiful and honest, thank you so much for sharing this with us ❤️

  23. Brigie Moselle Arora

    Brigie Moselle Arora

    天 前

    Congratulations on the baby!!!! Since you mentioned you had PCOS, could you do a video of the habits you had to battle PCOS that led to you ovulating naturally? What were your dietary restrictions as well as any supplements taken and workout done?

  24. Patricia Gaspar

    Patricia Gaspar

    天 前

    whyyy this is so fucking beautiful ang genuine?!!! 😭 aaackkk someday!! 😭

  25. JANE KIM


    天 前

    Yay, congrats! According to TCM it’s really not good to expose your tummy /torso as a woman, Especially during pregnancy- I hope this message and advice finds you kindly

  26. Tryphena Fischer-Klumb

    Tryphena Fischer-Klumb

    天 前

    i would literally love for her to be my mom imagine the lunches that she would make! You are also so inspirational! You are what inspired me to start making better lunches and eating better for big meals!

  27. Syerra Priese

    Syerra Priese

    2 天 前

    You will be the best mom every

  28. Chainaz Kanj

    Chainaz Kanj

    2 天 前

    Btw your going to be an amazing mother you have a If heart and if u think his/she not gonna love you ur wrong because babies just know ur there mum and love you so think positiveeee! 💕🥳

  29. Chainaz Kanj

    Chainaz Kanj

    2 天 前

    The only thing I can say of course your going to be a good mother and when the baby is there it will feel much more different like understandable

  30. Şüheda


    2 天 前


  31. Hyejeong Chang

    Hyejeong Chang

    2 天 前

    I felt every single emotion here. I only see glorified stories of when people get pregnant but I know for sure my first emotion would be a shock and a fear. So thank you for sharing that honest vulnerability Jenn!

  32. Samielle Taylor

    Samielle Taylor

    2 天 前

    Wow, congrats Jenn! And thank you so much for creating this video. I have a friend who's going through prenatal depression. This will be her first child and is an unexpected pregnancy. As a mom who went through similar circumstances to you both, this was extremely relatable and comforting for both her and me. I've been watching your videos since your thrift hauls with Sarah. It has been so beautiful seeing your growth and resilience through the ups and downs of life. Can't wait to help you welcome your little one into the world! You're going to be a wonderful mom.

  33. Olivia Brecht

    Olivia Brecht

    2 天 前

    I'm not sobbing you are

  34. Sarnai E

    Sarnai E

    2 天 前


  35. Bonnie Chen

    Bonnie Chen

    2 天 前


  36. Yalguun Battulga

    Yalguun Battulga

    2 天 前


  37. Diviya Letchumanan

    Diviya Letchumanan

    2 天 前

    Jenn, thank you for this. You always make even my worst days good. thank you for the insight jenn :)

  38. Rae Kembabazi

    Rae Kembabazi

    3 天 前

    Who else cried with her ? And when she smile, smile again😅 ?

  39. S E H E R

    S E H E R

    3 天 前

    If you are reading this comment i want let to you know you are going to be best mother and this child is so much lucky to have you ❤️

  40. Devanshi


    3 天 前

    the way you used “you” is so beautiful. To think, years on, your child will see this video and understand you better - make your bond deeper. You’re going to be great, there’s no doubt about it!

  41. Janna Naranbulag

    Janna Naranbulag

    3 天 前

    So beautiful ☺️🥺🥺🥺

  42. Хулан grate

    Хулан grate

    3 天 前

    We love you



    3 天 前

    I'm cryinggg congratulationss!!!😭😭😭 Omg twins with zoella's

  44. Sheetal Rai

    Sheetal Rai

    3 天 前

    Best wishes

  45. JuliFXJ


    3 天 前

    omg I cried so much watching this video. Its beautiful. Congrats! You are going to be an amazing and beautiful mother! My best and sincere wishes for you, your baby, Ben and your family!

  46. Mikaela Mattsson

    Mikaela Mattsson

    3 天 前

    Didn't expect to cry this much this morning

  47. Ionciciu ione

    Ionciciu ione

    3 天 前

    I am sobbing 🥲 This is such a beautyful moment! 💖 I feel like I have watched a series and my favourite caracters got that happy ending. I really appreciate you and have watched u since the begining of your youtube career and evan tho I do not know you personaly I am so so so happy for u and Ben. Congrats! 🥂💖

  48. 가나


    3 天 前


  49. Madeline Pinon

    Madeline Pinon

    3 天 前

    I cried of happiness 😍 congratulations

  50. Tsetsegmaa A

    Tsetsegmaa A

    3 天 前

    also teaching me... Wish you guys a healthy and happy life

  51. Jane Wan

    Jane Wan

    3 天 前

    When she was crying before taking the test, it was so raw and real it made me cry so hard💔🥺 I’m SO happy for you guys❤️

  52. maghfira asri

    maghfira asri

    3 天 前

    we're so happy for u

  53. MakeUp with Marianne

    MakeUp with Marianne

    4 天 前


  54. wende2003ya


    4 天 前

    Congratulations!! you both going to be the most amazing parent. Take the time to enjoy each moment. When fear and doubt knock, set your focus on Joy, Hope, and Happiness. Remember that any situation, is just a situation but you, your husband, and the baby are the real deal to love. In one week, one month, or a year you will barely recall the situation, but you 3 will ever remain present and most important. Love you Mama!!

  55. NinjinYumi


    4 天 前

    You'll be a great mum Jenn. The only thing that's important to become a great mum that is that you love your child, and you obviously do :)

  56. Anna D

    Anna D

    4 天 前

    This video is so relatable 😢. You’re a strong woman, Jenn!

  57. Dorka Maróti

    Dorka Maróti

    4 天 前

    Im literally 17, I1ve never even had a bf before but I'm almost bawling. So happy for u!

  58. Moyosorėoluwa Oladapo

    Moyosorėoluwa Oladapo

    4 天 前


  59. Milk and Cookies

    Milk and Cookies

    4 天 前

    You going to be a perfect parents

  60. Rigia Tirza

    Rigia Tirza

    4 天 前

    I am sure I am gonna back to this video in a couple years cause I need it

  61. Daria Skrypnik

    Daria Skrypnik

    5 天 前

    My heart.....❤❤❤

  62. Kelly Moore

    Kelly Moore

    5 天 前

    So many feel as you have...but everyone is afraid of saying it...thank you for sharing your story. Congratulations!!

  63. yuko 44

    yuko 44

    5 天 前

    Why do people act like it's a rare thing to get pregnant?

  64. Yoojinny


    5 天 前

    why am i so happy for you :')) literally sobbing

  65. Ro Alguacil

    Ro Alguacil

    5 天 前

    This is so beautiful 💜✨ thank you so much ❤️

  66. ISabby22


    5 天 前

    I cried so hard to this my boyfriend next to me was confused. This is so beautiful and thank you for sharing the raw emotions you’ve experienced

  67. fairy


    5 天 前

    Why am i crying

  68. TCL


    5 天 前

    I have watched your video since university, and now I’m pregnant as well. My response when I saw the result of test is exactly the same with you, crying non stop. But now I’m starting to accept the truth and learn to become a good mom. 😭❤️

  69. 杨昊怡


    5 天 前

    congratulation to Jenn!

  70. Sijia Zhang

    Sijia Zhang

    6 天 前

    Wake up at 4 in Shanghai and to see your video in tears❤️ thank you for sharing and it is so beautiful. Really excited to see this newcomer this year ! ❤️

  71. Florentia Kasapi

    Florentia Kasapi

    6 天 前

    This made me so emotional and happy for you. We didn't even hear the baby's heart, we had a miscarriage at 8 weeks..When I heard the heart I started crying so hard but I am so happy for you both ❤ it is truly a gift ❤

  72. Ppp Pppddd

    Ppp Pppddd

    6 天 前

    I subscribed you since i was a girl now i’m a woman. Im pretty sure you are gonna be a good mother. Cant wait to see your kid!! We love you and your family💕사랑헤💕

  73. Emma Isabelle

    Emma Isabelle

    6 天 前

    Ohhh jen 🥺😍 you're pregnant!! So happy for you 🥳

  74. Rafaella Rocha

    Rafaella Rocha

    6 天 前

    i am crying too much, wasn't ready for this. I am honestly so proud???

  75. Madeline Gonzalez

    Madeline Gonzalez

    6 天 前

    started crying when you mentioned your PCOS diagnosis. I have endometriosis and am currently 24, and am so scared to even consider having children in the future because I don't know if I can and I don't want to want it until I know I can do it. I'm scared

  76. Mothermaple Etsy

    Mothermaple Etsy

    6 天 前

    No body knows anything about being a parent. The best mum ever just loves her child, even when they are being a turd hahahaha

  77. taramisu


    6 天 前

    This was the most HONEST and REAL video of yours. Your videos are always honest and real, but I feel like this video I got to really see the complete and real you. Your reaction to your pregnancy is probably how I would feel too. Im so glad to see a reaction other than just happy. I feel like when a lot of women who post that they are pregnant are women that want to get pregnant and are trying, but it was nice to see a reaction from someone who was, yes trying, but still unsure on how they felt about being pregnant. We are all different people with different experiences, and it was nice to see a different experience. I love you Jen and your relationship with Ben is so beautiful. His reaction was so sweet it left me in tears. The whole video I felt like I was allowed to come along on the ride of emotions and thoughts that happen after finding out you're about to bring a person into this world. I was in TEARS. Im so happy for you both!!!

  78. GoldDIY


    6 天 前

    This was me when I was pregnant

  79. Anna Hsiao

    Anna Hsiao

    6 天 前

    omg crying so much at how beautiful this video is.

  80. Taylor Weldon

    Taylor Weldon

    6 天 前

    You’re reaction is so real! It’s not always pure excitement.... it can be really really scary!

  81. Lani


    6 天 前

    I love how real this is

  82. 飛鳥asuka


    6 天 前

    I felt the same as you Jen, but I was 19 ay the moment with my 2 month old relationship. I'm japanese and my grandma was very very cold to me, the only people who accepted were my parents. I bet being asian doesn't make it any easier. It lasted 2 years until we separated but luckily we co-parent our daughter quite well. Now it's been three years since I'm in a healthy relationship with my partner, who also loves unconditionally my daughter. Time puts in place what is meant for. Or at least that's what I want to believe ❤️ I'm so happy for both of you Jen. You'll be great parents

  83. puppyhasmilk


    6 天 前

    You are so strong, beautiful, intelligent-all of the above. You are going to be a great mother. I love you so much. :'( This video is so sweet; I can't stop crying.

  84. Julia Ngo

    Julia Ngo

    6 天 前

    Omg, stoppp i am crying I am so happy for you guys

  85. Meg


    6 天 前

    I started crying this was so beautiful to watch ❤️

  86. Amanda Monnette

    Amanda Monnette

    7 天 前

    Cryingggg 😭😭😭😭 congrats !!!!

  87. Emily Caitlynn

    Emily Caitlynn

    7 天 前

    i just found out im pregnant, and i will unfortunately be a single mother, i was a complete mess when i found out because i was in shock that it was even real. i thought my mother would be upset because im graduating college may 15th, still have no job and it was with a guy that i just didnt feel a connection with in the end. but, she is over the moon and said the same thing your mother did "im glad youre having a baby while im still young enough and able to remember" that really helped me relax more and just open up to this new journey.

  88. Nimesha Gamage

    Nimesha Gamage

    7 天 前

    I'm not gonna cry... I'm not gonna cry... I'm not gonna cry.. 😭😭😭😭😭

  89. Jimin


    7 天 前

    What a grateful moment of minutes to being able to watch your story. I am so happy for you. Love you Jenn.

  90. Kemi A

    Kemi A

    7 天 前

    congratulations Jenn and Ben, also you are going to be both great parents.

  91. Koel Bright

    Koel Bright

    7 天 前

    You will always be a good mother. Right guys?

  92. Yvette Yang

    Yvette Yang

    7 天 前

    Oh Jenn.... I've only recently discovered your channel and watched maybe four of your many many videos so far and every single one of them has managed to bring me to tears... Thank you for being so honest and authentic. You remind me every time of how life is amazing and beautiful even with all the challenges, the uncertainties, the fears... Thank you for sharing these moments of your life with us!

  93. Amara Stibbie

    Amara Stibbie

    7 天 前

    Congratulations!!!! See, social media is beautiful because of this video. She shared her raw true feelings as well as this beautiful edit with overlaying music that is so creative and hits a different part of my brain. Gosh, I love this video so much and so happy for you and Ben

  94. Seritonin


    7 天 前

    As a woman who was raised in a strict household , was in an extremely controlling relationship, and got pregnant at 21... I felt as if my life was over. I never experienced what young people did, I never had a normal childhood or did what teenagers did and then suddenly I was pregnant? I mourned the life I never had and probably never would experience. I kissed my youth goodbye. And now? 3 years later ? I sometimes still get depressed over it. My prenatal and postnatal depression was really and I still haven’t fully recovered. Over time my priorities shifted and I absolutely love my daughter. That doesn’t mean I will still feel down at times. I had to do it practically alone, but jenn has Ben and many others that can provide support so I know she will be fine. Everything will be okay. It gets better.

  95. Sharanya n

    Sharanya n

    7 天 前

    I don't even know them and i feel so happy and emotional. I guess that's the beauty of it

  96. Nabilla Azarine

    Nabilla Azarine

    7 天 前

    i literally cried watching this :( so beautiful. congratulations and stay safe & healthy jenn!

  97. Nur Afrina Damia Mohd Salim

    Nur Afrina Damia Mohd Salim

    7 天 前


  98. gecko


    7 天 前

    Purest video I’ve seen in a while. I cried watching this during dinner 😂

  99. Oliwia Pyzel

    Oliwia Pyzel

    7 天 前

    Omg im crying sooo bad, that is the most beautiful thing i ever seen! The fact how honest you are, you’re not trying to look good or like you’re handeling the situation when you’re not and I love this about you and Ben! I KNOW you two are gonna be amazing parents! God bless you! 🌸✨

  100. Questionable Lexi

    Questionable Lexi

    7 天 前

    Your moms support made me cry so hard